I would be without fear, I would meet the world with innocence, wonder, curiosity and joy and create a lot of connected situations. I would feel peaceful insight and not be against but rather for things.
Who would I be? I’m not sure. I think the general fear of not being good enough or not being lovable is so subtle it’s hardly noticed. A lot of work has been done on that of course and I don’t often feel held back by fear but I do get a sense that there is a quiet lingering fear that is still clinging preventing me even imagining, not who, but how I could be.
Thanks again for these tutorials Tara, they are a very helpful guide.
I would be less inclined to feel the loss of missing out on the things I see others do
that I would still love to be doing with my deceased husband who died unexpectedly at 68 years of age. My Mother died a few weeks before at the age of 98 and I had a reverse role and virtually became her carer from the age of 14 years. It was now our time !!! But not to be. 💔
I would be a more confident public speaker and leader. This would relieve some anxiety that I now understand is an emotional reaction to a perceived threat of personal failure.
I will be empowered to do whatever I like to do. Like to build, improve, participate, be happy, and powerful. I would love myself, I wouldn’t have limitations and I don’t have excuses to isolate myself. I will be proactive, supportive, and would be kind to myself and others.
Kristin Schmidt, Another Field, McKinleyville, CA, USAsays
I have insecurity and am not sure if it’s based on thinking something’s wrong with me. I have always believed I am lovable because I was loved deeply as a child and in my adult life. So where are my insecurities coming from? Somehow I think they are deep-rooted. Possibly due to karmic carryover. Like maybe I did something unloving in a previous existence that’s I’m carrying with me. It’s a bit baffling but it’s there. I need to try and rewire the neural pathways that keep me thinking of it.
Thank you Tara, for this inspiration.
Mary Marx, Another Field, Los Angeles, CA, USAsays
🙂 I would be who I am now. I became my best friend and found out how much I love myself when I left an abusive relationship that cultivated and harvested my fear. Honestly, my life hasn’t changed that much, other than not hanging out with people who mistreat me, but I recognize my value. No one is better than me. Also, no one is worse than me.
I would be able to get unstuck from this dark place I’ve been living in for so long. And even now that I’m facing health issues that might not allow me to do everything I always wanted to, I would be able to accept my physical and psychological limitations and still work toward finding a place where I can feel like I’m worthy and lovable
In a nutshell. I would be superwoman! I know I have everything inside me to be all that I want to be personally and professionally. Fear and anxiety keep me trapped
F S, Counseling, GB says
Beautifully distilled wisdom – it feels so achievable !
N. C., Other, DE says
I would be without fear, I would meet the world with innocence, wonder, curiosity and joy and create a lot of connected situations. I would feel peaceful insight and not be against but rather for things.
Catherine Mwaniki, Psychology, KE says
I would be powerful and wise beyond my wildest imagination.
yin Long, Other, CN says
Many thanks…truly touched and feel like crying
Himanshi Sharma, Student, IN says
Myself himanshi sharma, I am from India . Actually I see my father spirit, I feared. What I do to overcome from fear.
Lorna Wiggins, Counseling, GB says
Thank you. Some great tools to aid self reflection.
Margaret, Psychotherapy, GB says
Who would I be? I’m not sure. I think the general fear of not being good enough or not being lovable is so subtle it’s hardly noticed. A lot of work has been done on that of course and I don’t often feel held back by fear but I do get a sense that there is a quiet lingering fear that is still clinging preventing me even imagining, not who, but how I could be.
Thanks again for these tutorials Tara, they are a very helpful guide.
Naomi Foighel, Psychology, san fransisco, CA, USA says
I would reach out more
Carol Welch, Counseling, GB says
Free and confident
Jacqui Tisch, Teacher, NZ says
Freer expression of myself and my creativity.
More space in my life to experience joy and peace.
Be more certain.
Lavina Stobb, Another Field, AU says
I would be less inclined to feel the loss of missing out on the things I see others do
that I would still love to be doing with my deceased husband who died unexpectedly at 68 years of age. My Mother died a few weeks before at the age of 98 and I had a reverse role and virtually became her carer from the age of 14 years. It was now our time !!! But not to be. 💔
Nuria Ramisa, Other, ES says
I wouldn’t be afraid to show others who i am and I’d accept myself and my history. I would feel capable and worthy.
Diane P, Counseling, GB says
I’d feel confident , lighter and energised.
Nanna Suoperä, Teacher, FI says
A better, braver and stronger version of me.
Taunya Nelson, Coach, USA says
Someone with powerful digestion, & owning all of who I am.
K. S., Other, AU says
Liberated
Joshua Lam, Counseling, SG says
I’ll be unstoppable.
C K, Medicine, Portland, OR, USA says
I would be a more confident public speaker and leader. This would relieve some anxiety that I now understand is an emotional reaction to a perceived threat of personal failure.
Neha Golchha, Psychology, NZ says
Better version of myself, more confident and calmer
Melissa Weaver, Health Education, Sebastopol, CA, USA says
Thank you for your deep wisdom. I would feel calm relaxed, confident, capable, joyful and filled w love and gratitude.
Hosana Barquero, Coach, CR says
I will be in peace with myself, more confident and happier.
Robin Nelson, Physical Therapy, Tulsa, OK, USA says
a prolific artist and musician
i would have more energy and time to be creative
i would be a better healer for my patients and myself
Sancia Duncan, Counseling, NZ says
I would be much more helpful to my clients.
M. del Carmen Moyers-Ruiz, MX says
Recuperaría la seguridad en mi misma.
Elaine Matteucci, Nursing, USA says
I would be confident, outgoing, and life would be more fun. I would engage socially with ease and be more successful at work.
Connie Wilson, Psychology, Visalia, CA, USA says
My braver best self. My happier best self. Free.
Branislav E, Other, RS says
Dead man.
Suzanne Bass, Social Work, Clarks Summit, PA, USA says
Following
M Brown, Another Field, TW says
So informative and helpful! Will share with others.
Morella Aranda, Psychology, CO says
I would be a much happier, more cheerful and relaxed being!
Anon Tou, Other, Anon, CA, USA says
More open
J L, Counseling, HK says
I would stop fighting with myself and apply this energy instead to be proactive rather than be reactive
Isabel Caldwell, Pacific Palisades, CA, USA says
My fear is of LOSS – and based on my daughter’s being terribly ill. An approach to that fear would be invaluable.
I try to keep a grateful awareness and prayerful heart, but I am quite alone. I have been blessed with long life, and most of my friends have died.
Mum Athaide, Psychology, AU says
I would be more relaxed and take more risks personally and professionally
miguel romero, Other, AR says
I would be a happy person, secure and fearless
Nene Sahs, Another Field, Phoenix, AZ, USA says
I’d definitely be more confident, outgoing and probably more fun loving as well & ready to try anything!!
Andrew McCosh, Counseling, NZ says
I would be my true self, fulfilling my potential.
Nina Nik, Teacher, Incline Village, NV, USA says
I will be empowered to do whatever I like to do. Like to build, improve, participate, be happy, and powerful. I would love myself, I wouldn’t have limitations and I don’t have excuses to isolate myself. I will be proactive, supportive, and would be kind to myself and others.
Irene Rapt, Other, CA says
I would be in regular touch with an inner sense of feeling cherished and whole.
Victoria Barrett, Counseling, Seattle, WA, USA says
I would have a strong, vibrant, compassionate voice, rooted in a secure sense of self.
Kristin Schmidt, Another Field, McKinleyville, CA, USA says
I have insecurity and am not sure if it’s based on thinking something’s wrong with me. I have always believed I am lovable because I was loved deeply as a child and in my adult life. So where are my insecurities coming from? Somehow I think they are deep-rooted. Possibly due to karmic carryover. Like maybe I did something unloving in a previous existence that’s I’m carrying with me. It’s a bit baffling but it’s there. I need to try and rewire the neural pathways that keep me thinking of it.
Thank you Tara, for this inspiration.
Christine Yarrow, Counseling, GB says
I would be free to be who I’m meant to be and not letting fear of being judged rejected or disapproved of strangle me. I would feel so much lighter.
Mary Marx, Another Field, Los Angeles, CA, USA says
🙂 I would be who I am now. I became my best friend and found out how much I love myself when I left an abusive relationship that cultivated and harvested my fear. Honestly, my life hasn’t changed that much, other than not hanging out with people who mistreat me, but I recognize my value. No one is better than me. Also, no one is worse than me.
S. V., Medicine, Troy, MI, USA says
I would be in a loving relationship with someone who could reciprocate.
Nicky Jacobs, Another Field, GB says
I would be a person going out and getting the things I feel I cant have at this time
Lou Amabili, CA says
I would be less more visible to potential clients by not holding myself back.
Naya Devi Kleven, Another Field, Santa Barbara, CA, USA says
I would be able to be and do anything I want.
Francesca Albini, Other, MX says
I would be able to get unstuck from this dark place I’ve been living in for so long. And even now that I’m facing health issues that might not allow me to do everything I always wanted to, I would be able to accept my physical and psychological limitations and still work toward finding a place where I can feel like I’m worthy and lovable
Julia Roy, Counseling, MONTGOMERY, TX, USA says
Thanks for the insightful information. I look forward to learning more.
Alane Farmer, Mount Ephraim, NJ, USA says
In a nutshell. I would be superwoman! I know I have everything inside me to be all that I want to be personally and professionally. Fear and anxiety keep me trapped