Without fear and believing that there’s everything right with me, I would easily know how to set boundries, I would would ask for what I want and I would say no to what I don’t want.
As I am navigating the immense loss of my beloved 13 days ago, I am so aware of when I go into fear about what’s next, I feel myself so deeply sad and overwhelmed. As I take this process step by step, moment by moment and return to presence, I feel him close to me. I feel stronger as I step more into my grief and allow whatever needs to be in each moment.
As a therapist working with grief, trauma and overwhelm, I am modelling grieving in a conscious way, and this is giving my clients space to allow. Thank you Tara xx
I would have more joy in my life without these self-doubting thoughts. I would be more self confident and be able to be more myself in the interaction with others.
If I didn’t believe something was wrong with me I’d be free. I’d be grateful. I’d be whole. I’d be awesome. I’d be whatever my heart desires without the judgment of my harsh inner critic. I’d be ok.
Without fear I’d be more confident, let myself be more spontaneous and allow joy to take up more space. I’d feel less exhausted and experience more peace of mind.
I would be free to choose how to live my life. I would be capable to stepping into my strengths and work with my passion. I would be able to see myself as lovable and worthy of intimate relationships. I would a part of the community, participating in gatherings. I would live a joy-filled life.
I would be able to have a romantic relationship with a man and enjoy it for the first time, I’m 46 and have learned not to even try now because it’s so much simpler being alone. I can’t see ever being in a relationship again.
who would I be without fear? good question. I think it beats asking what are you/am I afraid of? when I focus on the fears, I can’t see past them, and when I focus on who would I be without fear, I touch infinity.
Thank you for the video talk. the thought of letting go of all my fears, and the associated anger, put me in touch with my inner freedom- I’d be free like a bird, like a ray of sunshine, I would be so light and so expanded.
I would be more open and able to share what I have to offer in a loving, thoughtful and compassionate way, from my heart and which touches the hearts of others.
The person I have the capacity to be, without the limitations that I create for myself. The glass would be full, in the knowledge that I was achieving my full potential. In turn, I would be accepting of that healthier version of my ‘self’.
MerraLee Block, Counseling, Ponte Vedra Beach, FL, USAsays
False evidence appearing real plus real but not true, I believe will appeal to my adolescent clients. The F E A R acronym always left something unsaid.Thank you for completing it.
Fear will never disappear completely, but I want to recognise it sooner than now and use it in a constructive way. It should not leed me and be an obstacle to express my true feelings behind, e.g. if I I am disappointed by my partner.
Without fear I would be more lively, more joyful; I would dare to have more experiences in life, increase social interactions, often I feel I would like to be more active engaging with others; it could be pure social interacting or group work, for sure it would add riches to my life.
I would stop constantly questioning my abilities and feeling I need to do more.
I would be more spontaneous and more relaxed.
Without fear I would be able to enjoy what is left of my life (I am 80 years old and a widow)
Without fear and believing that there’s everything right with me, I would easily know how to set boundries, I would would ask for what I want and I would say no to what I don’t want.
I would shake off agoraphobic, stop procrastinating and bring the strong sense of self-worth from the outside into my inner self.
An ontological impossibility.
If I had no fear, I’d discover myself and have the bravery to face life without all the limiting beliefs that constantly plague me.
Foolhardy, and maybe dead
without fear I’d be happy, fulfilled, moving forward
Without fear I’d finally accept and live my life with much more joy and confidence!
As I am navigating the immense loss of my beloved 13 days ago, I am so aware of when I go into fear about what’s next, I feel myself so deeply sad and overwhelmed. As I take this process step by step, moment by moment and return to presence, I feel him close to me. I feel stronger as I step more into my grief and allow whatever needs to be in each moment.
As a therapist working with grief, trauma and overwhelm, I am modelling grieving in a conscious way, and this is giving my clients space to allow. Thank you Tara xx
Without fear I would have more freedom and I imagine I’d be less anxious and a happier person.
An object, a plant, the sky who knows…
A cheerful, spontaneous person.
I would be able to be more like my younger self, taking on challenges and not worrying so much about the consequences.
I would be completely open and authentic and generous.
More open minded.. secure with all thoughts…
I would have more joy in my life without these self-doubting thoughts. I would be more self confident and be able to be more myself in the interaction with others.
I would be an accomplished achiever
If I didn’t believe something was wrong with me I’d be free. I’d be grateful. I’d be whole. I’d be awesome. I’d be whatever my heart desires without the judgment of my harsh inner critic. I’d be ok.
Brave, happy, fulfilled, light, boundless
Without fear I’d be more confident, let myself be more spontaneous and allow joy to take up more space. I’d feel less exhausted and experience more peace of mind.
I would be free to choose how to live my life. I would be capable to stepping into my strengths and work with my passion. I would be able to see myself as lovable and worthy of intimate relationships. I would a part of the community, participating in gatherings. I would live a joy-filled life.
I would be a better practitioner. The “not good enough” belief holds me back from being awesome.
I would be able to have a romantic relationship with a man and enjoy it for the first time, I’m 46 and have learned not to even try now because it’s so much simpler being alone. I can’t see ever being in a relationship again.
Thank you Tara…looking forward to working with you
who would I be without fear? good question. I think it beats asking what are you/am I afraid of? when I focus on the fears, I can’t see past them, and when I focus on who would I be without fear, I touch infinity.
Thank you for the video talk. the thought of letting go of all my fears, and the associated anger, put me in touch with my inner freedom- I’d be free like a bird, like a ray of sunshine, I would be so light and so expanded.
I would be more open and able to share what I have to offer in a loving, thoughtful and compassionate way, from my heart and which touches the hearts of others.
Thank you!
Without fear I would be more joyfull, more courageous, more generous. In a Life without fear it woyld be possible to live my full potential.
A more free, confident and content version of myself.
I would be free spirited,dancing,not judging myself. I would lead a carefree life not so bothered about what others thought about me.
I wouldn’t react so much when I perceive others are judging me. I would be accepting, and not take things personally.
The person I have the capacity to be, without the limitations that I create for myself. The glass would be full, in the knowledge that I was achieving my full potential. In turn, I would be accepting of that healthier version of my ‘self’.
I would feel brave and self reliant and resilient. Feeling stronger would give me energy to help others.
Fully myself. Whole and totally free.
Free
My now seldom default is that something is wrong with them, not with me
False evidence appearing real plus real but not true, I believe will appeal to my adolescent clients. The F E A R acronym always left something unsaid.Thank you for completing it.
I will be my better self able to more freely experience and share my gifts joyfully.
Free
I think fear is what’s underneath my anxiety.
Thank you 🙏
Fear will never disappear completely, but I want to recognise it sooner than now and use it in a constructive way. It should not leed me and be an obstacle to express my true feelings behind, e.g. if I I am disappointed by my partner.
Peace with impermanence.
Thank Tara you’re one of the most inspiring and influential teachers.
I would be free if I didn’t believe some of my fears and I’d probably have more energy. It’s a lot of work holding myself down. 🥴
Without fear I would be more lively, more joyful; I would dare to have more experiences in life, increase social interactions, often I feel I would like to be more active engaging with others; it could be pure social interacting or group work, for sure it would add riches to my life.
I am often irrationally fearful. I hope to find a path through the thicket of negative emotions I experience. 🙏🏻
I have no fear, but I want to help people who have, find the right words
a more creative, free and happier version of myself.