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How to Work with Gaslighting and Manipulation
The Hard-to-Recognize Emotional Abuse That Isolates, Confuses, and Undercuts Your Client’s Self-Worth
Gaslighting and manipulation is profoundly disorienting. When it’s happening, it can feel to your client like they’re caught in a confusing maze where reality constantly shifts.
Disturbingly, it’s not long before they’re left second-guessing their instincts, doubting their memories, and even questioning their sanity as the manipulator systematically undermines their confidence and sense of self.
The thing is, attempts to help your client come to grips with what’s happening can backfire. That’s because it’s such an insidious experience – one that’s often masked by the manipulator’s charm or feigned concern.
So to navigate the complexities of working with a client who’s being gaslit or manipulated, here’s just some of what you need to know:
- The subtle signs that your client is being gaslit or manipulated
- The (perhaps counterintuitive) link between manipulation and anxiety
- Trauma-informed strategies you can use with clients who’ve been gaslit or manipulated
We get into all of that and more with 18 of the top minds in the field in this brand new course . . .
— New Short Course —
Strategies to Help Clients Heal from Patterns of Gaslighting and Manipulation
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Working with the Relationship Between Attachment Trauma and Manipulation
Richard Schwartz, PhD Pat Ogden, PhD Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD
Eboni Webb, PsyD Laurel Parnell, PhD Deany Laliotis, LICSW
Juliane Taylor-Shore, LPC, LMFT, SEP
- One Core Belief That Can Keep Clients Stuck in Cycles of Manipulation (and How to Address It)
- How to Work with Gaslighting or Manipulation That Stems from an Authority Figure
- An EMDR Approach to Help Gaslit or Manipulated Clients Rebuild a Sense of Trust (In Themselves and Others)
- A Strategy to Help Clients Differentiate from Relationships Characterized by Gaslighting or Manipulation
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Strategies to Help Clients Recognize and Respond to Gaslighting or Manipulation
Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT Eboni Webb, PsyD
Chris Willard, PsyD George Faller, MS
- Subtle Signs That Your Client Is Experiencing Gaslighting or Manipulation
- One Counterintuitive Trait That Could Make Your Client More Susceptible to Manipulation
- Three “Waves” of Gaslighting That Clients Often Experience (and How to Help Your Client Make Sense of This Cycle)
- A Key First Step to Addressing Gaslighting and Manipulation in an Intimate Relationship
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How to Help Clients Free Themselves (Safely) from a Manipulative Relationship
Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD Thema Bryant, PhD Frank Anderson, MD
Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD Zindel Segal, PhD Chris Willard, PsyD
- One Strategy to Help Clients Safely Exit a Toxic (or Even Dangerous) Relationship
- Specific Skills to Teach Clients BEFORE Attempting to Confront Gaslighting or Manipulation
- How to Help Clients Recognize, Honor, and Circumvent the Protective Strategies that Keep Them Stuck in Harmful Relationships
- Helping Your Client Map Out What a Healthy Relationship Might Look Like for Them (Especially if They’ve Never Had One)
- One Factor That Can Be Especially Critical When Working with Clients Stuck in Manipulative Relationships (and How to Help Clients Develop It)
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Helping Clients Navigate Gaslighting or Manipulation within Family Relationships
Lynn Lyons, LICSW Eboni Webb, PsyD
Russell Kolts, PhD Raymond Rodriguez, LCSW-R
- The Key Link Between Anxiety and Manipulation (and the Impact It Can Have on Families)
- Communication Patterns That Commonly Give Rise to Manipulation – and How to Teach Families Healthier Patterns of Relating
- How to Work with Adolescent Clients Who Are Being Gaslit or Manipulated by Their Family
- How to Work with a Parent Who Engages in Gaslighting or Manipulation
- Two Ways to Help Parents Respond to Children Who Display Manipulative Behaviors
Register Here for $197 $97
and get all the videos, audios, transcripts, learning tools, plus 2 bonuses
to help clients overcome experiences of gaslighting and manipulation
Sign Me Up
Up to 3 CE/CME Credits or Clock Hours are available for purchase at checkout.
Click HERE to get information about CE/CME credits and clock hours as well as speaker disclosures
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For This Short Course, We Brought Together Some of the Top Experts in the Field
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Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD
Professor of Psychiatry and Director of the Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) research unit at the University of Western Ontario. Coauthor of The Impact of Early Life Trauma on Health and Disease: The Hidden Epidemic, and Healing the Traumatized Self: Consciousness, Neuroscience, Treatment.
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Thema Bryant, PhD
Licensed psychologist specializing in relief and empowerment of marginalized persons; Professor of Psychology in the Graduate School of Education at Pepperdine University; author of Thriving in the Wake of Trauma: A Multicultural Guide.
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Richard Schwartz, PhD
Founder of Internal Family Systems (IFS) and The Center for Self Leadership; Author of Introduction to Internal Family Systems.
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Pat Ogden, PhD
Pioneer in Somatic Psychology; Founder and Director of Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute (SPI); Co-founder of the Hakomi Institute; Author of Sensorimotor Psychotherapy: Interventions for Trauma and Attachment.
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Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
Founder of the PACT Training Institute and developer of a Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT).
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Frank Anderson, MD
Licensed psychiatrist and psychotherapist; program consultant for the IFS Institute; advisor to the International Association of Trauma Professionals; author of Transcending Trauma: Healing Complex PTSD with Internal Family Systems.
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Christopher Willard, PsyD
Psychologist and educational consultant specializing in mindfulness; president of the Mindfulness in Education Network; serves on the board of directors at the Institute for Meditation and Psychotherapy.
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Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD
Professor of Counseling, Developmental, and Educational Psychology at Boston College; Author of Psychoanalytic Theory and Cultural Competence in Psychotherapy; Co-author of Applying Multiculturalism: An Ecological Approach to the Multicultural Guidelines.
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Eboni Webb, PsyD
Licensed psychologist; specializes in DBT for trauma-based disorders and co-occurring disorders; advisor to the DBT National Certification Accreditation Association.
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Deany Laliotis, LICSW
Director of Training at EMDR Institute; Specialist in treatment of traumatic stress disorders and attachment issues; author of chapters and articles on EMDR therapy.
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Dennis Tirch, PhD
Founding Director of The Center for Compassion Focused Therapy; President of The Compassionate Mind Foundation of North America; co-author of Experiencing ACT from the Inside Out: A Self-Practice/Self-Reflection Workbook for Therapists.
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Zindel Segal, PhD
A founder of Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT); Professor of Psychology at the University of Toronto.
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Juliane Taylor Shore LPC, LMFT, SEP
Licensed therapist; expert in trauma recovery and couples counseling; specializes in applying Interpersonal Neurobiology to the healing of trauma; founder of IPNB Psychotherapy of Austin
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George Faller, MS, LMFT
Licensed marriage and family therapist; founder and President of the New York Center for EFT; retired Lieutenant of the NYC Fire Department.
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Russell Kolts, PhD
Clinical psychologist and professor of psychology at Eastern Washington University; Founder and Director of the Inland Northwest Compassionate Mind Center; author of The Compassionate Mind Approach to Managing Your Anger.
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Raymond Rodriguez, LCSW-R
Licensed clinical social worker specializing in trauma therapy with members of marginalized communities; Adjunct Faculty Member at Columbia University School of Social Work; Faculty Member of the Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute.
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Laurel Parnell, PhD
Leading expert in Eye-Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR); Author of Attachment-Focused EMDR: Healing Relational Trauma.
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Lynn Lyons, LICSW
Author of Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents: 7 Ways to Stop the Worry Cycle and Raise Courageous & Independent Children, clinical social worker and psychotherapist specializing in anxiety in adults and children.
Course Director
Ruth Buczynski, PhD
Here's What You'll Get:
Everything is yours to keep forever in your professional library
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Downloadable videos so you can watch at your convenience, on any device |
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Audio recordings you can download and listen to at home, in the car, at the gym or wherever you like |
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TalkBack Segments to distill key ideas (this is where we “land” the session) |
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Next Week in Your Practice sessions to give you concrete strategies to use with clients |
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Professionally-formatted transcripts of the sessions, to make review and action simple |
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Two downloadable bonus videos to help clients overcome experiences of gaslighting and manipulation |
You’ll Also Get These 2 Bonus Sessions with Even More Strategies for Addressing Gaslighting and Manipulation
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The Weight of Institutionalized Gaslighting and Manipulation (and How to Address It)
Thema Bryant, PhD Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD
Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD
- How Systemic Gaslighting Could Be Impacting Your Client (and Why It’s Often Hard for Them to Identify)
- Strategies to Help Your Client Combat Institutionalized Gaslighting and Manipulation
- Two Factors That Can Make Your Clients More Likely to Fall Prey to Institutionalized Gaslighting and Manipulation
- Race, Culture, and Gender: How to Address the Gaslighting and Manipulation That’s Baked into Harmful Stereotypes
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How to Process Countertransference in Your Work with Gaslighting or Manipulation
Dennis Tirch, PhD Thema Bryant, PhD
Raymond Rodriguez, LCSW-R Deany Laliotis, LICSW
- Ethical Concerns That Can Arise with a Client Who’s Been Gaslit or Manipulated
- How to Address Power Imbalances When a Client Has Experienced Gaslighting or Manipulation
- Specific Precautions to Help Prevent Clients from Recreating Harmful Behavioral Pattern within the Therapeutic Relationship
Register Here for $197 $97
and get all the videos, audios, transcripts, learning tools, plus 2 bonuses
to help clients overcome experiences of gaslighting and manipulation
Sign Me Up
Up to 3 CE/CME Credits or Clock Hours are available for purchase at checkout.
Click HERE to get information about CE/CME credits and clock hours as well as speaker disclosures
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We invite you to register for this comprehensive training program without any risk. Unless you are completely satisfied, we will refund your money. Just let us know within 30 days from the date of registration. We are that confident that you will find this information to be more than you expected.
Starting Today, This Program Can Change the Way You Practice
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. . . I feel so fortunate to have this access to brain power, experience and research synthesis . . .
“When I listen to the experts talk openly about their experience, I feel so fortunate to have this access to brain power, experience and research synthesis on cutting edge issues! I go back to the videos to reinforce things that will assist my clients.”
Mary Logan, Counselor
Ipswich, MA
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I benefit, my practice benefits, and most important my clients benefit . . .
“I live in Nova Scotia and have limited travel funds at the university at which I work. The series provided by NICABM gives me the rare opportunity to listen to the leaders in the field. As a result, I learn valuable information that would not otherwise be available to me. I benefit, my practice benefits, and most important my clients benefit from the knowledge and wisdom I gain from the series.”
David Mensink, PhD Counseling Psychology, Psychologist
Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada
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. . . some dare to go the extra journey to research and educate
“These NICABM series keep me afloat, in touch, on track, well trained in my field, and more personally healthy. The best aspect, though, is that I feel validated and comforted knowing that some dare to go the extra journey to research and educate, so I can walk the path to health, and can share with others.”
Mary Corsello-Vilcheck, LCSW
Midlothian, VA
Why the Transcript Is Essential:
- The transcript makes it easy to go back and double check concepts, citations and names that are mentioned
- We put in a table of contents to make it easy for you to find the exact part of the webinar you need
- Having the concepts already written allows you to take notes on how you’re going to use the ideas rather than transcribing the ideas
- Some people simply learn better by reading than by listening or watching
- You will be able to print out and share techniques presented in the session with your patients
“I really liked being able to follow along with the transcripts as I listened…it was nice not to feel like I had to take notes. I really feel like I remember more when I both hear and see at the same time.”
Mary Ellen McNaughton, Masters in Counseling, Psychology Counselor
Kelowna, British Colombia, Canada
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We invite you to register for this comprehensive training program without any risk. Unless you are completely satisfied, we will refund your money. Just let us know within 30 days from the date of registration. We are that confident that you will find this information to be more than you expected.
Register Here for $197 $97
and get all the videos, audios, transcripts, learning tools, plus 2 bonuses
to help clients overcome experiences of gaslighting and manipulation
Sign Me Up
Up to 3 CE/CME Credits or Clock Hours are available for purchase at checkout.
Click HERE to get information about CE/CME credits and clock hours as well as speaker disclosures